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Dawn Roe's avatar

I strongly sense I may be posting this response to the TOUCH prompt for this week in the wrong place, but perhaps not, and I trust Jay to let me know!! :) Touch

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I thought I’d be writing about my relationship about my very long-distance relationship with my partner of 19 years but in this, I am pondering my mom.

In my childhood-the touch was confusing

It was there

And felt good

On occasion

Deeply so

But would dissipate

The trust

(required for me)

In my sensitive response to the way the humans related

Picking up

From a very young age

on what seemed to be the inauthenticity

Of people not expressing what they were really feeling

Made me cautious and a little uneasy

With the touch that was given too soon

Following a break in the trust.

To me, I felt that touch was this sacred gift that could be given and received

Only in the presence of truth and trust and safety--complete and unwavering

(Not much room for humanity)

My own

Others

To hug and hold and caress and be caress and hugged and held

This started very very early in my life

Today

In my 60s

I live and help care

For my almost 90 year old mom

Whose long hugs

On and off

Throughout the day

In places around her home

As if it’s the first time she’s seeing me in weeks

Hugs

That come with a warm smile on her face

envelop me

In the perfect embrace

With

Acceptance

Healing

Safety

Trust

Delight

Warmth

Delight

I think we must have been close

In those early months

of Life

Perhaps created a distance for a time

But the distance is gone

I am here

In the presence of what may always existed

A deep love

Such a sweet touch

That of a mother who loves her child

Who always loved her child

Who has carried the love for all of her children

And that of a daughter who recognizes

The gift of this love

And can receive it

With such a grateful heart

Without question

Without expectation

A touch that allows me to feel her essence

And her heart.

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Cassandra Zilinsky's avatar

Oh, this one makes me smile Bigly 🥰🤭🇨🇦

I Am Canadian, and all my life I have treated others with respect, dignity and kindness. ❤️🇨🇦❤️

In all my interactions with other humans- ALL other humans, I show humour, laughter and Joy.

I literally pass it on. Always.

Those who are as I am know this feeling:

It’s WONDERFUL! 🥰🙌🤭🫂❤️

I get my bad ass self all dolled up, put on my Statement Tshirts, and do my Awesome, Sparkling Thing! 💫🧚‍♀️🕊️🏳️‍🌈🦋🇨🇦

Yesterday was my Barbie Tshirt, my fun sparkly bling, and my blue hair in a mini Mohawk 😉💋🌶️

I show LOVE 💕 and I get it back 🥰🙌🕊️🤭

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